The #1 New Year’s resolution has to be “I’m going to lose weight”. People who are die-hard gym-goers have stories about how swamped the places are in January, only to be empty again in April. No lasting change is usually made, because the cycle repeats itself the next year.
So how do we get on the path to real, lasting change? We implement the “Get Specific, Get A Framework, Get Momentum” plan I outlined in my earlier post. Let’s dive in!
The Overview
We need to define some action that we can take to help us with weight loss. Since weight loss is inextricably tied to your eating habits, that’s as good a place as any to start.
Think of the food you eat as belonging to three basic groups. There’s the food that’s really good for you (like fresh veggies), food that’s really bad for you (like triple-chocolate ice cream), and food that’s somewhere in the middle.
Before we go any further, I can already hear the objection. “Wait, nobody can agree on what’s really healthy or unhealthy – everybody tells me to eat something different!” The interesting thing is, there are “really good” and “really bad” groups that tend to be agreed upon by most health authors. You’d be hard-pressed to come up with a diet that wouldn’t let you eat fresh veggies, and you’d be even harder-pressed to come up with a diet that would allow you large quantities of triple-chocolate ice cream.
There are two basic ways you can change your eating habits. You can start eating things that are really good for you, or you can stop eating things that are really bad for you. For this exercise, we’re going to focus on the latter.
Get Specific
Identify things that you eat right now, but should probably eat less of. There might be a lot of things, and that’s okay. Make as complete a list as you can.
Once you have the list, pick the one that’s likely to make the biggest difference. If you eat a pint of ice cream every day, that’s a good place to start. Soda is another. Delivered pizza is a good candidate too!
You’re going to significantly reduce your consumption of just that one item. If there are more items on the list, save the list – you can repeat this process as necessary!
Now do two simple things:
- Find Your Frequency - How often do you currently eat the item on your list? Once a day? Once a week? Make a note of it.
- Re-Tune Your Dial - Now create a new frequency. If you were eating delivered pizza once a day before, switching to twice a week or once a week would be reasonable. If you were eating a big bowl of ice cream a few times a week, once every week or once every two weeks would be a good place to start. The idea is to eat it less often, not to cut it out entirely.
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For me labeling those things I want to stop eating as occasional treats rather than basics helped a lot. When I shared that thought with my husband he said that’s because treats are those food that when we eat them make us feel guilty. Apparently that’s why I found giving up grains so easy–no guilt from eating them at every meal.
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Hi Linda!
I can definitely see where you’re coming from with the “treats = guilt” angle.
The interesting thing is, humans are wired to seek out things they enjoy. I firmly believe that any diet plan that requires you to completely give up foods you love eating is destined to fail, because it violates that core attribute of our humanity.
I think the problem comes when we’re subsisting almost entirely on “treat” food. We do enjoy it when we’re eating it, but we don’t enjoy the negative effects it has on our bodies.
I can tell you for a fact that when I was drinking soda all the time, I felt guilty. Now when I have an occasional soda, it doesn’t bother me. It’s not something that runs my life anymore, so I’m free to enjoy it or not.
Food is really a bizarre psychological influence, isn’t it?
I am going to come at this from a different angle, I like your idea of having a action but I dont like the idea of having a goal as many people push. I find goals are easy to fail!
Here is the slight twist I am trying in my weight loss.
Rather than say I want to lose xlbs by the summer I am saying that I am going to go to the gym every other day but only on weekdays, I think that this approach to changing a habbit rather than a goal might help me. I will lose the weight but as long as I do adapt I cannot fail!
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